How to be more likeable

No matter how fast and how digital the world may be, humans still need other humans for survival. We all need love and affection from others. Before you’re loved, you’ll need some attributes. What attributes? How can you be more likeable? Read this post

Since no two humans are the same, everyone have their own unique ways of attracting people. Just like the above picture, everyone have a way to fit into the society and into the environment in which they want to. This article would provide different ways anyone can use to attract people. Of all, the first two are the most important.

Determine your audience

This simply means you should first know the people you should be friends you. That is that people who you’re trying to appear likeable to.

1. Know your worth

Your worth should define the people you want to be likeable to. According to ‘priority of friendship‘, your worth should majorly determine your friends. By worth i mean

Priority
Aspiration
Mindset
Likes and dislikes
Etc

The aforementioned should be your focus. These should determine who you should call friends. You shouldn’t be interested in making friends with people who have no mutuality with you in any of the above aspects.

2. Prove your worth

Now that you know your worth, you should implement it in your life. Only when your worth is seen and understood by others would the people you wish to be around with start coming. If your worth(as explained) above isn’t shown out, random people would be around you.

What you should do

Now the upcoming points shows what you should do in order to appear likeable to the selected people. Keep reading

3. Be trustworthy

Nobody(not even the worst human) likes it when they’re lied to. You should avoid issues that’ll make you lie. Never lie. It’s better to say sorry for what you did than to cover it. Imagine if someone has known you for ‘this’ then later, he/she discovers you’re ‘that’. How would he/she feel? How can you be trustworthy?

4. Yes mean yes

Only when your yes is really yes and your no really no will you be trustworthy. People who talk too much may sometimes say the wrong thing. My advise is that you shouldn’t talk too much.

5. Don’t be rude

Don’t let people view you as someone who’s rude. Wether in school, work or wherever you may be, be polite and welcoming to others as possible as you can. There are two ways in which you can avoid been rude
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